Best friend forever ?

Friend : A person that you know and like and who also like you , who always stand up for you, when other try to hurt you but they do everything and make sure you stay happy.

You love to spend time with them because you can tell them anything. We share each other feelings and thoughts. Friendship means familiar and liking of each other’s mind. There are no trust issues.

Best friends forever : the one you share your darkest secrets with them.

We spend our childhood making  (friends) best friends. But when we grow up,  is it to live and talk with the same person with whom you shared all those secrets ? it is said that forever is not forever .

What it mean to be a forever

 kind of friend :

 

Best friend forever ?

Friendship is a most beautiful  relationship. There is no guarantee you can keep your friendship even if they are fantastic. But we make sure we enjoy our friendship with together right now.

Friends are not forever. I am not saying that but friendship could be a forever if you both are willing to kept it.

Why most friendship don’t last :

Friends change, move away  and most of our friendships will not last forever.

Here are some reason :

Live far away :

When you live far away from your friends, it takes effort to maintain the friendship on both sides.

 Not able to see each other often requires a commitment to stay in touch.

Some people do very well but some people don’t. it is challenging to keep the ones that are long distance.

 Also Distance is a good indicator of how much a friend love you.

Other relationships :

In the life, there are many times when your family needs you and as a result your friendship will suffer.

When you have to start prioritizing other relationships that forever friend don’t understand.

 This mean that when a friend has to put you second , It’s hurts.

The family is  now the main priority.

A lake of efforts :

If friendship become one sided, game over..!

Friendship need to be how much effort you are putting in.

If you do not this is the fastest way to ending a friendship.

Make your friendship last forever :

I am not saying that friends are not forever. Friendship could be forever if you both are willing to kept it. Not even in friendship but also each every relationship . it is up to both your mindset. Friendship also every relationship  need respect, understanding, motivations, happiness lot’s of trust and little bit fun. Just we have to leave aside our EGO. Friendship be forever if you considerably take and try to not destroy you friendship by letting EGO come in your way.

I know that friendship is the most beautiful relationship. There is no guarantee you can keep your friendship even if they are great and fantastic. But we make sure we enjoy our times with together right now.

Sometimes, friends promise that they will be in touch but new people come into their lives and they become their priority and forget us. People come and go..!🤷🏻‍♂️

In result, forever friendship will be the result of mutual respect, understanding, equally importance, listens each others  and priority. It’s hard to find people like that.

Sometimes two friends can be driven apart by a  simple misunderstanding, if you feel that you  and your friend are becoming more distant , talk with him/her to found out what’s going on. Talk about and find solutions together.

You and your friend also need to get some distance and take break. This is difficult time but it’s necessary for survive friendship. It will probably be hard for both of you. losing a friend can be as tough as breaking up with loves one.

but i never forget them. 

Best friend is not forever but memories you are had together is forever.

My best friend last fondly  in my memory forever. even if we don't talk.